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Ok, so my name is Ashley. I'm from Tift County, Georgia [Southern Belle] :). I have the most AMAZING boyfriend but some of the things he does and says irritates me. He is VERY jealous. Today was our first day of school 8.6.09. We are Seniors. He told me before school that I better not talk to guys, I better not sit near them or anything. He just don't realize that I don't want anybody else. I only want, need, couldn't live without Him!! I just wish he would chill out with that. He knows that he cant talk to girls either because I cant talk to guys..but I still do every now and then but just as friends. He knows not to talk to girls what so ever but I don't stop him in the hallway and say "you BETTER NOT talk to any girls or today is going to be a bad day for your ass". Oh and not to mention I cant talk to certain girls, such as `whores`. And I cant even text my friends. I can only talk to them at school and that's it. But he talks to his stupid redneckin' buddies up town but yet I cant..that's messed up don't you think!?! But that's it for now. I love my baby with all my heart. 10 months..Go us!! (=  ilyjp.   [Feel free to leave feedback]
Thanks, Ashley!              

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we've went to school together since middle school but we never really talked and so one day he tried "talkin" to my best friend and she didn't like him but she also had a bf at the time so I was like ok give me his number and i'll text him and get him to leave you alone so I texted him and I was kinda mean to em' which I feel bad for doing it now :( but anyways he didn't talk to me after that until i saw him up town one night and he spoke a few words.. not really to me. But anyways I had a cousin that worked at the peanut plant in tifton and I had no idea that "he" lived on the same rd as the peanut plant so I was hanging out at the peanut plant one night and a truck rode by that sounded and looked like "his" so I got the balls to text him and say "did you just ride by the peanut plant"? And next thing I know he called me and was like where are you? I said i'm at the peanut plant and he was like cool, do you want me to come see you? I said sure! So he came up there and saw me, we talked and all that yahdayah. And before he left he was like can I have a hug and of course I said yesss(: and he was like DAMN! your short =] haha..and we started talking from then on :) lucky me! i got me a country boy for life! I'm so lucky to have him! I love him with all my heart and soul! He's my baby. 

she's gonna marry that boy someday-Trisha Yearwood.                     

We've come so far since that day and I thought I loved you then!-Brad Paisley.

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sweety,
I know that you love your boyfriend but his jealousy is dangerous for you and has the serious marks of his becoming abusive towards you somday. Be very careful before making a commitment.

why don't you focus more on what you want out of life instead of what your boyfriend wants...kids at your age are very fickle what you have now might not last forever and if he is this possesive now then he wouldnt make a good husband later in life if you plan on getting married and having kids..i know you will take this with a grain of salt like most kids your age do but take it from one who has been there and down that road all ready and also you don't want to be tied down with a couple of kids and no one there to help you..so start thinking about you and your life and think about what you are going to do in the future and don't worry so much about having a boyfriend..if he loves you he will already trust you..remember jealousy is not love,,,

Ok, ten years from now...You are his wife and you have kids by him, both girls. Do you want them to think it is ok for someone other than themselves (notice I did not say "a man") to tell them what is acceptable behaviour? Isnt that up to one's own self to figure out? Talking to another man is not cheating. Even hugging and flirting is not cheating. Someone who is that jealous does not care about your feelings, and is VERY AFRAID that you will find out just what a heal he really is. He simply cannot trust you, and it IS a matter of trust. He is VERY insecure. And what is he going to do if you DO talk with some man? What if some other man talks to you? What does he expect you to do? Do you feel like you will be in trouble if approached by a male friend? If so, you are in trouble! Trust me, I know what I am talking about.

I marrried a very jealous man. Stayed married for ten years. He isolated me to the point that I was not even allowed to have female friends! God forbid I should glance at another man! It ended the night he choked me because I asked for a divorce and he couldnt stand the thought of me with someone else. I have a daughter. I got out when she was 6, but spent the rest of the time teaching her that SHE sets those rules, not someone else. And not to accept someone elses perameters about behaviour. My daughter is 21 now and in a loving relationship. I am remarrying after finally finding someone who accepts me for who I am. The last poster is right. Concentrate on who you are and what you want out of life. If you ever want ANY friends, and the freedom to choose who they are, this man is not for you. Get out while you can.

Ask yourself one more thing....Can he talk to other females? Or is this rule just for him?

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