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Our Interview (Marriage Based Green Card)
Tuesday, January 12, 2010

My husband and I had our interview for his green card just before the holidays.  It was a bit nerve racking.  I have done all the paperwork myself, from applying for my husbands fiance (K-1) visa to the permanent residency.  All the paperwork is self explanatory but you must do everything carefully.  Read through the instructions several times and check your work again and again and make sure Adobe Reader doesn't autofill the wrong information. 

We arrived at the USCIS office about 40 minutes early.  We parked and went through security, then waited in the proper line for interviews.  We were then told to go upstairs and wait.  My husband waited for our interpreter to arrive (who was late) and I waited on the stairs just under the door where names were being called, just in case our name was called early.  Our interpreter arrived exactly when our appointment was scheduled. So we all hurried upstairs and waited for our named to be called while getting to know our interpreter a little bit.  We waited five minutes max before the door opened and a quiet voice mumbled out something I couldn't make out form across the room and then repeated "Last name: B- U- I "  and I realized that was us!  As we walked over to the door I heard someone from behind chuckle and repeat "Last name: B- U- I"  which was exactly what I was laughing to myself about.  My husbands name is pronounced buoy, like the things that float in the water.  The officer way playing it safe by just spelling it out.

We entered and the woman asked if we had just checked in because she had called our name once already but we didn't come.  Which I also chuckled to myself about since it was difficult for us to register they were calling our name by spelling it out.  She guided us to an office where there was a man waiting.  The woman introduced here self and stated that she was going to be performing the interview.
First she had our interpreter sign some paper work and swear that he would only translate what the two parties had said.  Then we both had swear that we would tell the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth.  The woman started the interview by asking me how my husband and I met and then asked to see some photos, which she looked through and then passed to the man sitting behind her.  She then asked if we had a joint bank account, which we didn't because we could not until he had a social security number.  Then she asked if we had joint insurance of any kind, which we also did not have. "Did we have a car with both our names on it?"  "Did we have a house with both our names on?"Yet again both of those questions were answered with a "no."  I explained to her that because he cannot get a social security number until her received his green card we have had a difficult time getting things such as joint bank accounts.    Last she asked if we had any bills with our names on it, which we did and I handed them to her.  By that point my chest was bright red because I was so scared that we didn't have all the things they were asking for.
Then she moved on to asking my husband questions. For the most part they were all questions that had already been answered in the application.  Then she handed us a paper and said that she was approving us and the card should come in the mail in 30 days.

My husband and I were so relieved,  the woman was so straight faced the entire time that it was hard not to be nervous even though we had nothing to be nervous about.  In the end the interview went real smoothly, the interviewer only looked at 1/4 of the stuff I had prepared as evidence for the interview.
My husband received his conditional Permanent Resident 17 days later and we are now waiting for his social security card to come in the mail.
 

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Summoned for the Green Card Interview
Wednesday, November 18, 2009

My Husband and I have been summoned to the green card interview.  I don't really know what to expect because most of my knowlege comes from that movie "Green Card."  So I expect they are going to ask crazy questions like "what color is his toothbrush?" and "What is the name of the lipstick I wear?"   In the movie the two were just getting married so the man could stay in the U.S. but then of course end up falling in love.  Since I have nothing to be afraid of because our marriage comes from the heart, I am a little excited to go through the process.  I wonder how similar it will be to the movies about the process.

 

 

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Marrying a Vietnamese Citizen
Saturday, February 14, 2009

In August I returned to Viet Nam in order to marry my sweetheart.  We had a wedding ceremony in Viet Nam in late October.  Our intentions are to return the the United States so that I can be near my family and friends that I love so dearly and for my husband to understand the culture I came from.  Since I have lived in Viet Nam for a total of 2 years thus far, I have a fairly good understanding of Vietnamese culture and am ready for him to see my side.

The process of getting a non-citizen to the U.S.A, has been an interesting process. But thus far not too difficult.  We sent off our application for a fiancee visa and all our information to USCIS in November and just today our status got updated to being approved!  I am so excited and hope that it means that we will be able to return to  my home soon. 

Since my mother, Susan the owner of Thrifty Fun, just passed away last month; I'm incredably eagar to get back to the U.S.  When I found out my mom was sick I was able to go home for a few weeks to take care of her. But sadly instead of getting miraculously better she passed away a week later.  This has been the most difficult thing I have had to experience in my 25 years of life.  My mom and I were very close and she was a major role model for me in my life. It is difficult for me to express my feelings for her at this point because it just gets me teared up.  Most days I am still in denial that she is really gone.

In regards to the Visa application for my fiancee/husband I feel my mom really helped in the speed of the process.  Although I have just been given notice that my application for the I-129F petition for fiancee visa has been aproved by USCIS, I am hopefull that the process will continue to go quickly. 

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Stella (Contact)
WA U.S.A.
About Me:

I am Susan of Thrifty Fun's youngest daughter. I started working for Thrifty Fun in 2005 and have been doing so, on and off, since. My mom taught me all about frugal living and I strive to live a frugal and sustainable life. Since 2006 I have been living in and out of Viet Nam. When I am there I work as an English teacher for 4-8 year olds and volunteer in orphanages and centers for children and adults with disabilities. I am currently living in the States with my husband working on all the paperwork it takes for a "green card." My experiences in Viet Nam gave me a different look at thrifty living and I try to use some of what I have learned there, in my life in the U.S.

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